Comments on: I Really Miss Her http://jayelleenelial.com/i-really-miss-her/ The Jolene Mentality - Shameless, Disgusting, Silliness. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:40:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: purefaith http://jayelleenelial.com/i-really-miss-her/comment-page-1/#comment-19131 purefaith Sat, 19 Jul 2008 11:37:52 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=647#comment-19131 letting go is never easy to do, but it will soon pass.... nothing escapes the 4 noble truths.... lots of metta letting go is never easy to do, but it will soon pass….
nothing escapes the 4 noble truths….

lots of metta

]]> By: mh http://jayelleenelial.com/i-really-miss-her/comment-page-1/#comment-19130 mh Sat, 19 Jul 2008 06:57:35 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=647#comment-19130 I know what you mean. After my grandparents' death, it took me one year before I was able to talk to anyone about them (silly and dramatic as it may sound), in a steady voice without my eyes brimming with tears. In fact, now (even if not very often), I have my private cries when I suddenly recount certain memories, sometimes even in the midst of driving from home from work! Nevertheless, I take comfort that the reason why I pine and grieve is because I have been blessed with much time previously to get to know and love them. The good news is, time does heal. The hurt will be gradually replaced by fondness as nostalgic memories are relived. *hugs* Missing the dearly departed is natural and you are not alone. I know what you mean. After my grandparents’ death, it took me one year before I was able to talk to anyone about them (silly and dramatic as it may sound), in a steady voice without my eyes brimming with tears. In fact, now (even if not very often), I have my private cries when I suddenly recount certain memories, sometimes even in the midst of driving from home from work!

Nevertheless, I take comfort that the reason why I pine and grieve is because I have been blessed with much time previously to get to know and love them. The good news is, time does heal. The hurt will be gradually replaced by fondness as nostalgic memories are relived.

*hugs* Missing the dearly departed is natural and you are not alone.

]]> By: Huai Bin http://jayelleenelial.com/i-really-miss-her/comment-page-1/#comment-19129 Huai Bin Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:01:17 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=647#comment-19129 I believe in that too - you'll get to see the people you love after you die. At least I hope that's what happens when I kick the bucket. But from a pragmatic point of view, even it it doesn't happen it'll still be alright since I'll not be conscious at all. I believe in that too – you’ll get to see the people you love after you die. At least I hope that’s what happens when I kick the bucket. But from a pragmatic point of view, even it it doesn’t happen it’ll still be alright since I’ll not be conscious at all.

]]> By: s0hp0h http://jayelleenelial.com/i-really-miss-her/comment-page-1/#comment-19127 s0hp0h Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:56:11 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=647#comment-19127 awww, you poor thing *pat on the back*. I feel so sad just reading bout it, my throat just tightens into a ball. It is really difficult to cope with a loss so sudden. It's almost like they never really left. My take is just cry whenever you feel like it - it doesn't mean you are weak or anything - it's just a process that everyone has to go through to eventually heal. there will be a point where you will only think of her and actually smile about the happy days you've shared, rather than counting on the days you don't get to be with her. Cheer up yea ^^ awww, you poor thing *pat on the back*. I feel so sad just reading bout it, my throat just tightens into a ball. It is really difficult to cope with a loss so sudden. It’s almost like they never really left. My take is just cry whenever you feel like it – it doesn’t mean you are weak or anything – it’s just a process that everyone has to go through to eventually heal. there will be a point where you will only think of her and actually smile about the happy days you’ve shared, rather than counting on the days you don’t get to be with her. Cheer up yea ^^

]]> By: Claire http://jayelleenelial.com/i-really-miss-her/comment-page-1/#comment-19126 Claire Tue, 15 Jul 2008 12:55:53 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=647#comment-19126 Ahh. i remember those exact emotions when my one and only living grandmother died.. i guess it's a comon feeling for all of us that have lost loved ones. she died when i was eleven - and yet i somehow felt all the same feelings that you are feeling at 21. and i never imagined i would be sad or anything after she died because i wasn't exactly the most doting grandchild :( but i suddenly realized that she wouldn't be there to see me grow up, yet she had seen most of my cousins leap past their teenage years.. and for me it felt the worst during the days of the wake, where everybody would be buzzing around with preperations for the burial. the only solution to these empty feelings is the fact that time heals all wounds. it will feel better :) it took me about a year.. HEH. its okay though, i'm sure shes looking down from up there and smiling at the many things you're achieving :) Ahh. i remember those exact emotions when my one and only living grandmother died.. i guess it’s a comon feeling for all of us that have lost loved ones. she died when i was eleven – and yet i somehow felt all the same feelings that you are feeling at 21. and i never imagined i would be sad or anything after she died because i wasn’t exactly the most doting grandchild :( but i suddenly realized that she wouldn’t be there to see me grow up, yet she had seen most of my cousins leap past their teenage years.. and for me it felt the worst during the days of the wake, where everybody would be buzzing around with preperations for the burial. the only solution to these empty feelings is the fact that time heals all wounds. it will feel better :) it took me about a year.. HEH. its okay though, i’m sure shes looking down from up there and smiling at the many things you’re achieving :)

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