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		<title>By: Vincent</title>
		<link>http://jayelleenelial.com/intimidation-will-be-the-death-of-me/comment-page-1/#comment-17663</link>
		<dc:creator>Vincent</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 04:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Know your rights .. then watever ppl say .. u wont be intimidated..
Know the human rights
Read the rights from here...

http://www.un.org/Overview/rights.html

It is Universal Declaration of Human Rights. Most of them are applicable in Malaysia unless there is conflict with federal constitution.

http://www.suhakam.org.my/en/act_597.asp</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Know your rights .. then watever ppl say .. u wont be intimidated..<br />
Know the human rights<br />
Read the rights from here&#8230;</p>
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<p>It is Universal Declaration of Human Rights. Most of them are applicable in Malaysia unless there is conflict with federal constitution.</p>
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		<title>By: MY</title>
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		<dc:creator>MY</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2007 20:32:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s supposed to be &quot;ONE try&quot; in my last sentence and not &quot;on try&quot;. Sorry for the typo.  Don&#039;t have &quot;Because I&#039;m your Girl&quot; video also I cannot see properly. :D

Ka yau !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s supposed to be &#8220;ONE try&#8221; in my last sentence and not &#8220;on try&#8221;. Sorry for the typo.  Don&#8217;t have &#8220;Because I&#8217;m your Girl&#8221; video also I cannot see properly. <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Ka yau !</p>
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		<title>By: MY</title>
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		<dc:creator>MY</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2007 20:29:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, Jolene. Didn&#039;t read your blog for few days coz the internet connection at my place &quot;sot-sot&quot; so I cannot go online. 

Don&#039;t be intimidated by anybody or anything ! Have confidence in yourself. Don&#039;t care about what people say coz most of the time they are jealous and feel insecure about themselves if they make nasty comments. It takes someone brave like you to put up funny pictures of yourself to make people laugh. Laughter is the best medicine. If you dare to poke fun at yourself, it shows you have a big heart coz you dare to laugh at yourself. Not many people are willing to laugh at themselves, you know. Keep laughing and we will laugh with you.

&quot;Ka yau&quot; for your studies and don&#039;t stress yourself out by worrying so much about your exam. As long as you have done your part by revising and practising, have confidence that you will do well. Sometimes we do not succeed with just one try. We must know how to pick ourselves up again and keep on trying; don&#039;t give up. Btw, you only need on try to pass your papers with flying colours.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, Jolene. Didn&#8217;t read your blog for few days coz the internet connection at my place &#8220;sot-sot&#8221; so I cannot go online. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be intimidated by anybody or anything ! Have confidence in yourself. Don&#8217;t care about what people say coz most of the time they are jealous and feel insecure about themselves if they make nasty comments. It takes someone brave like you to put up funny pictures of yourself to make people laugh. Laughter is the best medicine. If you dare to poke fun at yourself, it shows you have a big heart coz you dare to laugh at yourself. Not many people are willing to laugh at themselves, you know. Keep laughing and we will laugh with you.</p>
<p>&#8220;Ka yau&#8221; for your studies and don&#8217;t stress yourself out by worrying so much about your exam. As long as you have done your part by revising and practising, have confidence that you will do well. Sometimes we do not succeed with just one try. We must know how to pick ourselves up again and keep on trying; don&#8217;t give up. Btw, you only need on try to pass your papers with flying colours.  <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: entwined</title>
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		<dc:creator>entwined</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 08:53:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:(

i feel the same. sometimes when people we care about scold us for something we never did (or they misinterpreted our actions/words), then i get very hurt and insecure. then the mental block to defend myself comes into play. so i just usually withdraw and stay silent instead of trying to explain. 

:(

and i only think of good comebacks hours later. damn frustrating!


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&lt;b&gt;jo: it&#039;s hurtful. :(  hahaha yaya like when kena bully that time right, after awhile only can think of good ways to kick the bully&#039;s ass..:P&lt;/b&gt;



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<p>i feel the same. sometimes when people we care about scold us for something we never did (or they misinterpreted our actions/words), then i get very hurt and insecure. then the mental block to defend myself comes into play. so i just usually withdraw and stay silent instead of trying to explain. </p>
<p> <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>and i only think of good comebacks hours later. damn frustrating!</p>
<p><b>jo: it&#8217;s hurtful. <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   hahaha yaya like when kena bully that time right, after awhile only can think of good ways to kick the bully&#8217;s ass..:P</b></p>
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		<title>By: twinbuzz</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 08:33:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Jolene, 

I&#039;ve been coming over to read your blog lately, more often now that the exam period is here. It&#039;s funny, but you almost speak the words that I am afraid to say or write. But I guess if someone doesn&#039;t say something, then everyone else will be left in the dark, wondering if there are others like them.


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&lt;b&gt;jo: hahaha using my blog as a tool to procrastinate eh! wise choice..wise choice..;P :) i never knew i wasn&#039;t alone in this.... :) glad to know that there are people who have these difficulties like me out there.&lt;/b&gt;



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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Jolene, </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been coming over to read your blog lately, more often now that the exam period is here. It&#8217;s funny, but you almost speak the words that I am afraid to say or write. But I guess if someone doesn&#8217;t say something, then everyone else will be left in the dark, wondering if there are others like them.</p>
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<p><b>jo: hahaha using my blog as a tool to procrastinate eh! wise choice..wise choice..;P <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  i never knew i wasn&#8217;t alone in this&#8230;. <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  glad to know that there are people who have these difficulties like me out there.</b></p>
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		<title>By: nazlihaffiz</title>
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		<dc:creator>nazlihaffiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jun 2007 00:50:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Live for yourself, not others. To hell with what other people think, that is my motto. If you think you&#039;re right and you know whut you&#039;re doing, then by all means do it.

Perhaps you think too much in situations &lt;i&gt;thinking&lt;/i&gt; is a lot less needed.

Go to the Nike store and Just Do It! 

(My comment has nothing to do with the promotion of any sporting goods companies.. LOL).


Got my e-mail? Perhaps you should check your gmail&#039;s spam box?

Cheers!




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&lt;b&gt;jo:ehhe difficult for me to live by those rules. I care about what others think. difficult to break out of it. :) yeah received your email! sorry for the long ass one that i bombed back!&lt;/b&gt;




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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Live for yourself, not others. To hell with what other people think, that is my motto. If you think you&#8217;re right and you know whut you&#8217;re doing, then by all means do it.</p>
<p>Perhaps you think too much in situations <i>thinking</i> is a lot less needed.</p>
<p>Go to the Nike store and Just Do It! </p>
<p>(My comment has nothing to do with the promotion of any sporting goods companies.. LOL).</p>
<p>Got my e-mail? Perhaps you should check your gmail&#8217;s spam box?</p>
<p>Cheers!</p>
<p><b>jo:ehhe difficult for me to live by those rules. I care about what others think. difficult to break out of it. <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  yeah received your email! sorry for the long ass one that i bombed back!</b></p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 15:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>everyone&#039;s like that i suppose. just master the art of not showing how nervous you really are to others. gah.. i&#039;m sometimes so reluctant to signal for the bill from a waiter. how sad.

ditto sewjin.



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&lt;b&gt;jo: easy to say..:) hahahahha MY brother had that problem when he was younger&lt;/b&gt;




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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>everyone&#8217;s like that i suppose. just master the art of not showing how nervous you really are to others. gah.. i&#8217;m sometimes so reluctant to signal for the bill from a waiter. how sad.</p>
<p>ditto sewjin.</p>
<p><b>jo: easy to say..:) hahahahha MY brother had that problem when he was younger</b></p>
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		<title>By: sewjin</title>
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		<dc:creator>sewjin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 13:38:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>if we could speak like we write.. then we wouldn&#039;t be blogging anymore. at least I wouldn&#039;t.



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&lt;b&gt;jo: set la. I think i finally got an idea what to do when i make an audioblog via skype with u.&lt;/b&gt;



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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>if we could speak like we write.. then we wouldn&#8217;t be blogging anymore. at least I wouldn&#8217;t.</p>
<p><b>jo: set la. I think i finally got an idea what to do when i make an audioblog via skype with u.</b></p>
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		<title>By: c.ho</title>
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		<dc:creator>c.ho</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 11:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>just keep forcing yourself into situations you hate being in and eventually, you learn that stuttering gets you no where but misunderstanding and repeated conversation and to frustration. hey..  you know.. you sounding articulate to official ppl&#039;s a milestone.

heck, I still lose it sometimes.. lol.. just talking to even the plumber on a bad day and I sound like an incoherent idiot! 

try doing what i do. I totally stop the conversation, take a deeeeeepp breath, and start from the beginning, giving thought to what  i want to say, speaking slowly even if it is needed.. 

lol..  sounds a bit redundant that i totally stop a convo just to start from the beginning huh? imagine.. babble babble babble.. *silence* .. &quot;okay.. what i meant was.. yada yada..&quot; good grief... my sisters call me blonde just cuz i babble.. &gt;


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&lt;b&gt;jo: I so get the stopping convo part!! i have to do that sometimes too!!&lt;/b&gt;




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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>just keep forcing yourself into situations you hate being in and eventually, you learn that stuttering gets you no where but misunderstanding and repeated conversation and to frustration. hey..  you know.. you sounding articulate to official ppl&#8217;s a milestone.</p>
<p>heck, I still lose it sometimes.. lol.. just talking to even the plumber on a bad day and I sound like an incoherent idiot! </p>
<p>try doing what i do. I totally stop the conversation, take a deeeeeepp breath, and start from the beginning, giving thought to what  i want to say, speaking slowly even if it is needed.. </p>
<p>lol..  sounds a bit redundant that i totally stop a convo just to start from the beginning huh? imagine.. babble babble babble.. *silence* .. &#8220;okay.. what i meant was.. yada yada..&#8221; good grief&#8230; my sisters call me blonde just cuz i babble.. &gt;</p>
<p><b>jo: I so get the stopping convo part!! i have to do that sometimes too!!</b></p>
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		<title>By: s0hp0h</title>
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		<dc:creator>s0hp0h</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 04:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i get dat too.. tend to always rush like a bullet train when speaking so that they won&#039;t be able to focus on what I&#039;m saying.. lol.. then it ends up them saying, i dun get it.. sigh, then have to repeat.. just making it worse.. 

now dat U say it.. I think friends like that are everywhere.. it&#039;s either u being superior, or the other person being superior.. heheh.. i also refused to give in at one point because i just don&#039;t see how it&#039;s my fault.. stubborn me.. but turns out quite good though.. we are still friends and we noe each other&#039;s limits.. 

hopefully urs turn out good too cos i&#039;m sure u dun wanna lose such good friend.. ^^




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&lt;b&gt;jo: HAHAHA yayayaya..i do that with my father alot too. I become very vague...and mumble..and then he gets more angry. :( haih, tough life. yeah i suppose.;(&lt;/b&gt;



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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i get dat too.. tend to always rush like a bullet train when speaking so that they won&#8217;t be able to focus on what I&#8217;m saying.. lol.. then it ends up them saying, i dun get it.. sigh, then have to repeat.. just making it worse.. </p>
<p>now dat U say it.. I think friends like that are everywhere.. it&#8217;s either u being superior, or the other person being superior.. heheh.. i also refused to give in at one point because i just don&#8217;t see how it&#8217;s my fault.. stubborn me.. but turns out quite good though.. we are still friends and we noe each other&#8217;s limits.. </p>
<p>hopefully urs turn out good too cos i&#8217;m sure u dun wanna lose such good friend.. ^^</p>
<p><b>jo: HAHAHA yayayaya..i do that with my father alot too. I become very vague&#8230;and mumble..and then he gets more angry. <img src='http://jayelleenelial.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  haih, tough life. yeah i suppose.;(</b></p>
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