Comments on: What Would You Do? http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/ The Jolene Mentality - Shameless, Disgusting, Silliness. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:40:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: vernz http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-9827 vernz Tue, 17 Jul 2007 07:41:20 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-9827 so goin to throw a fit if he hangs out wt a girl i dun like n he noes well about it...it prob sounds a bit unreasonable for me to barge in on hu he hangs out with i dun lk her means i dun lk her......not gonna pretend lk i dun mind cuz its so fake...! if he noes tis girl likes him n he has no intention to like her back...den dun hang out wt her...y give her more false hope? it makes it even harder for her to get over it...(unless she's alredi got over it den tats diff) n if once or twice still bearable....but if many many many times...sumtin's not rite there anyhow....wateva the situation....i wuldn't like my guy to be hangin out wt any girls one on one...if its wt a bunch of frens then surely its alrite so goin to throw a fit if he hangs out wt a girl i dun like n he noes well about it…it prob sounds a bit unreasonable for me to barge in on hu he hangs out with
i dun lk her means i dun lk her……not gonna pretend lk i dun mind cuz its so fake…!

if he noes tis girl likes him n he has no intention to like her back…den dun hang out wt her…y give her more false hope?
it makes it even harder for her to get over it…(unless she’s alredi got over it den tats diff)
n if once or twice still bearable….but if many many many times…sumtin’s not rite there

anyhow….wateva the situation….i wuldn’t like my guy to be hangin out wt any girls one on one…if its wt a bunch of frens then surely its alrite

]]> By: Timothy Ngim http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-9499 Timothy Ngim Fri, 13 Jul 2007 15:38:25 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-9499 Well, if were guys were to substitute the genders, no need to think ady, it would be just "hantam" the other guy. Well, if were guys were to substitute the genders, no need to think ady, it would be just “hantam” the other guy.

]]> By: Hotchoc http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8697 Hotchoc Tue, 03 Jul 2007 04:04:48 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8697 Sounds like a situation i'm in. My bf has known this girl way before he knew me. When we got together this girl confessed her feelings to him a few times. Of course my bf turned her down and told me about it. But he still goes out with her occasionally which makes me uneasy (i always think that we should have the freedom to meet our friends). He knows it and has lied to me before (abt who he went out with) and even didn't tell me that he meets up with her sometimes. It really pisses me off but i can't call his bluff cause i read his msn history (where i found out a LOT of other awful lies. Like telling people that me and him are just friends). But the situation is better now, he tells me the truth about where he's going and with who (confirmed true). I just can't stand the gal who still confesses to my bf even though she got turned down and knows my bf is already in a relationship!! And also my bf who lies to make the situation better. <strong>jo: sounds like you've got quite a problem on your hands. :( try to tell your boyfriend that he doesn't have to tip toe around you... coz it seems like he's a little scared. but glad that things are better for you.  some girls are just so persistent.;(</strong> - Sounds like a situation i’m in. My bf has known this girl way before he knew me. When we got together this girl confessed her feelings to him a few times. Of course my bf turned her down and told me about it. But he still goes out with her occasionally which makes me uneasy (i always think that we should have the freedom to meet our friends). He knows it and has lied to me before (abt who he went out with) and even didn’t tell me that he meets up with her sometimes. It really pisses me off but i can’t call his bluff cause i read his msn history (where i found out a LOT of other awful lies. Like telling people that me and him are just friends). But the situation is better now, he tells me the truth about where he’s going and with who (confirmed true).

I just can’t stand the gal who still confesses to my bf even though she got turned down and knows my bf is already in a relationship!! And also my bf who lies to make the situation better.

jo: sounds like you’ve got quite a problem on your hands. :( try to tell your boyfriend that he doesn’t have to tip toe around you… coz it seems like he’s a little scared. but glad that things are better for you.  some girls are just so persistent.;(
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]]> By: Sharlini http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8671 Sharlini Mon, 02 Jul 2007 10:04:40 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8671 I've never been in such a situation. First and last relationship was a LDR. So dunnolah if he spent time with other women (platonic or otherwise). So what would I do in such a situation? Nothing. Just grin and bear it, especially if they have been friends for a long time. He obviously sees something in her that's worthy of his time, even though you don't. Just remember that he's the one calling you the gf. If he really liked her more than you, then why didn't he call her his gf? All this hypothetical, of course. *sniffles* *cough* <strong>jo: take good care of that cough, you. yeah i guess so. grin and bear. </strong> - I’ve never been in such a situation. First and last relationship was a LDR. So dunnolah if he spent time with other women (platonic or otherwise). So what would I do in such a situation? Nothing. Just grin and bear it, especially if they have been friends for a long time. He obviously sees something in her that’s worthy of his time, even though you don’t. Just remember that he’s the one calling you the gf. If he really liked her more than you, then why didn’t he call her his gf? All this hypothetical, of course. *sniffles* *cough*

jo: take good care of that cough, you. yeah i guess so. grin and bear. 
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]]> By: Mei http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8638 Mei Sun, 01 Jul 2007 17:19:25 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8638 Jo: yeahlah..I was really really pissed and yes abt the girl sitting on the exact seat that I usually sits on, I know is like small story thingy but I have the same reaction with you lor. Yea the bf and I had a LOOOOONNNNGGGG talk abt it and he knew he was wrong and admitted and everything blah blah blah. It took me quite some time to get over this incident but...let me tell u lah....I still hate that girl!!!! On the highschool girls story, I absolutely agree with you. Common lah, ppl change in time so just put the past behind and not live so miserably. <strong>jo: hahahha cheers babe. yeah very difficult to un-hate a bitchy girl one. been there done that. still doing. :) hahha no wor, this girl didn't even get to know my friend. kakakka. those small girl secret admirer type;P</strong> - Jo: yeahlah..I was really really pissed and yes abt the girl sitting on the exact seat that I usually sits on, I know is like small story thingy but I have the same reaction with you lor. Yea the bf and I had a LOOOOONNNNGGGG talk abt it and he knew he was wrong and admitted and everything blah blah blah. It took me quite some time to get over this incident but…let me tell u lah….I still hate that girl!!!!

On the highschool girls story, I absolutely agree with you. Common lah, ppl change in time so just put the past behind and not live so miserably.

jo: hahahha cheers babe. yeah very difficult to un-hate a bitchy girl one. been there done that. still doing.

:) hahha no wor, this girl didn’t even get to know my friend. kakakka. those small girl secret admirer type;P
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]]> By: Sharlini http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8637 Sharlini Sun, 01 Jul 2007 16:59:39 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8637 Oh, okay. Understood. Sorry, on medication and can't operate heavy machinery (like brain). Well, if the beef is between you and the girl, and bf has nothing to do with it...why should he bother? <strong>jo: :P sorry on my part too for somewhat lashing out like that. nah it's okay babes! yeah bf shouldn't bother lah. so my question is "what would u do?" as in to the girl:D was looking forward to some rather creative answers but everybody(except for mei!) had to think it was about a love triangle. haih.</strong> - Oh, okay. Understood. Sorry, on medication and can’t operate heavy machinery (like brain). Well, if the beef is between you and the girl, and bf has nothing to do with it…why should he bother?

jo: :P sorry on my part too for somewhat lashing out like that. nah it’s okay babes! yeah bf shouldn’t bother lah. so my question is “what would u do?” as in to the girl:D was looking forward to some rather creative answers but everybody(except for mei!) had to think it was about a love triangle. haih.
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]]> By: Kok Keith http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8636 Kok Keith Sun, 01 Jul 2007 16:37:39 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8636 oh hello.. yup long time no see.. well the last time i saw you was like errr maybe in secondary school? hahahaha <strong>jo: hahah not just secondary school, but FORM4 secondary school:)</strong> - oh hello.. yup long time no see.. well the last time i saw you was like errr maybe in secondary school? hahahaha

jo: hahah not just secondary school, but FORM4 secondary school:)
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]]> By: Sharlini http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8624 Sharlini Sun, 01 Jul 2007 13:52:07 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8624 IMHO, if you hate the girl just because she gets to spend time with the bf (especially since he asked you to be his gf and not her), it just shows that you have low self-esteem. A naggy gf with low self-esteem would not be appealing to any guy. Besides, why are only girls seen as the 'enemy'? Guys can be just as terrible. What if bf is closet gay/bi? Something to think about. ;-) <strong>jo: no no, not hating the girl BECAUSE she gets to spend time with the guy. hating the girl because of something else, BUT she spends time with your boyfriend. understand the point? Ah, well, my answer to my own questions(which might help answer some of yours, that ur not asking) would be to tell my boyfriend, "mmm, go lah go lah." if he knows how much i don't like it, he won't. if he knows it's not much, it's really not much. now that's understanding. Well, my question is supposed to be general mah..that's why it's usually girls against girls. something some girl did to step on our toes before.. without a man involved..surely u can understand? .. and if bf is closet gay/bi..then it's the girl's problem lor. it'll be up to her to break off from the relationship or find him being a bi a turn on. was just reading about this in Cleo just now actually. </strong> - IMHO, if you hate the girl just because she gets to spend time with the bf (especially since he asked you to be his gf and not her), it just shows that you have low self-esteem. A naggy gf with low self-esteem would not be appealing to any guy.

Besides, why are only girls seen as the ‘enemy’? Guys can be just as terrible. What if bf is closet gay/bi? Something to think about. ;-)

jo: no no, not hating the girl BECAUSE she gets to spend time with the guy. hating the girl because of something else, BUT she spends time with your boyfriend. understand the point?

Ah, well, my answer to my own questions(which might help answer some of yours, that ur not asking) would be to tell my boyfriend, “mmm, go lah go lah.” if he knows how much i don’t like it, he won’t. if he knows it’s not much, it’s really not much. now that’s understanding.

Well, my question is supposed to be general mah..that’s why it’s usually girls against girls. something some girl did to step on our toes before.. without a man involved..surely u can understand? .. and if bf is closet gay/bi..then it’s the girl’s problem lor. it’ll be up to her to break off from the relationship or find him being a bi a turn on. was just reading about this in Cleo just now actually.
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]]> By: Kok Keith http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8611 Kok Keith Sun, 01 Jul 2007 08:20:23 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8611 Question 3: Like I always tell my gf: "I'm attractive and straight of cause girls will get attracted to me, I can't help it; you can't help it." All I'm trying to say is we can't control who likes you. For the other questions the way a guy would want their gf to react is: Just be honest with us. You hate that girl say so don't say "ok dear have fun" and when we do have fun start getting mad at us. The way I would react: Ok have fun but I will call you every 20 mins. wakkaakakakakakakak <strong>jo: hahaha yes sir! glad that u got an understanding gf! HAHAH i think ur the kancheong type right if u'll call every 20 minutes;P  hahaha.. nah i'm sure ur just joking.;) and..oh.. HELLO!!! lama tak jumpa!</strong> - Question 3:

Like I always tell my gf:

“I’m attractive and straight of cause girls will get attracted to me, I can’t help it; you can’t help it.”

All I’m trying to say is we can’t control who likes you.

For the other questions the way a guy would want their gf to react is:

Just be honest with us. You hate that girl say so don’t say “ok dear have fun” and when we do have fun start getting mad at us.

The way I would react:

Ok have fun but I will call you every 20 mins. wakkaakakakakakakak

jo: hahaha yes sir! glad that u got an understanding gf! HAHAH i think ur the kancheong type right if u’ll call every 20 minutes;P  hahaha.. nah i’m sure ur just joking.;) and..oh.. HELLO!!! lama tak jumpa!
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]]> By: Gina http://jayelleenelial.com/what-would-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8555 Gina Sat, 30 Jun 2007 08:43:41 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=298#comment-8555 Aiyoh... if I were you, the girl who keeps hanging out with my balak whom I happened to hate, well, he would get an earful lah from me. But usually, I would do even worse things - make him choose. Hahahha. It's either me or her. Or if he wants to go out with her, please do it discretely and please do not let this come to my knowledge or else, world war 3! <strong>jo: hahha aye aye woman! like my friend melody said, displeasure lah;) But no ropes and handcuffs involved lah. I mean we can't be controlling what. we'd hate that to happen to us. But I would understand if my boyfriend had beef with one of my guy friends. I'd avoid that guy friend to avoid any problems lor. </strong> - Aiyoh… if I were you, the girl who keeps hanging out with my balak whom I happened to hate, well, he would get an earful lah from me. But usually, I would do even worse things – make him choose. Hahahha. It’s either me or her. Or if he wants to go out with her, please do it discretely and please do not let this come to my knowledge or else, world war 3!

jo: hahha aye aye woman! like my friend melody said, displeasure lah;) But no ropes and handcuffs involved lah. I mean we can’t be controlling what. we’d hate that to happen to us. But I would understand if my boyfriend had beef with one of my guy friends. I’d avoid that guy friend to avoid any problems lor. 
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