Comments on: When You Have A Problem http://jayelleenelial.com/when-you-have-a-problem/ The Jolene Mentality - Shameless, Disgusting, Silliness. Wed, 08 Feb 2012 00:40:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Tan Yee Wei http://jayelleenelial.com/when-you-have-a-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-19190 Tan Yee Wei Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:34:34 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=661#comment-19190 I suspect that the main purpose of this entry is to vent some frustration, but i will say that it is very very well written. Loved it, completely enthralling. Yeah, i know those are adjectives used to describe novels and movies and erotica, but they apply here too. "It’s like trying to hold up a toppling vase in vain." *thumbs up* <br /><br /> <b>jo: YEE WEIIiiI!! :D not really lah, it's to see if i still got the juice to flow with the thoughts. Hahaha. Barely managing but thank you for the compliments. :) hahaha.. u know like the "oh nononononnoooo feeling?" yeah, that's what i meant. :)</b> - I suspect that the main purpose of this entry is to vent some frustration, but i will say that it is very very well written. Loved it, completely enthralling. Yeah, i know those are adjectives used to describe novels and movies and erotica, but they apply here too.

“It’s like trying to hold up a toppling vase in vain.”

*thumbs up*

jo: YEE WEIIiiI!! :D not really lah, it’s to see if i still got the juice to flow with the thoughts. Hahaha. Barely managing but thank you for the compliments. :) hahaha.. u know like the “oh nononononnoooo feeling?” yeah, that’s what i meant. :)

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]]> By: Huai Bin http://jayelleenelial.com/when-you-have-a-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-19189 Huai Bin Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:33:39 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=661#comment-19189 It depends on how close you are to that friend but continuous reruns will test even the patience of a monk. Luckily, I've never been subjected to that. Oh wait, lately I have been. She's not a friend per se, not a girlfriend either, somewhere in the middle, I guess. I've been listening to her problems and advising her about what to do, or at least, what I would do in her situation. As Paul said, no one likes pity parties. I found myself getting a little irritated the other day. I don't share my problems much, preferring to keep it to myself, except to a few friends and I usually just say it once or twice. You don't need to put up with it though, some people are just born whingers. ;) <br /><br /> <b>jo: ahhh... looks like u have a case of masuk satu telinga, keluar telinga lain. :) good lah..but if friends ask, i think it's good to share..:) nah..this is not totaly a personal experience!:)</b> - It depends on how close you are to that friend but continuous reruns will test even the patience of a monk. Luckily, I’ve never been subjected to that. Oh wait, lately I have been. She’s not a friend per se, not a girlfriend either, somewhere in the middle, I guess. I’ve been listening to her problems and advising her about what to do, or at least, what I would do in her situation.

As Paul said, no one likes pity parties. I found myself getting a little irritated the other day. I don’t share my problems much, preferring to keep it to myself, except to a few friends and I usually just say it once or twice.

You don’t need to put up with it though, some people are just born whingers. ;)

jo: ahhh… looks like u have a case of masuk satu telinga, keluar telinga lain. :)

good lah..but if friends ask, i think it’s good to share..:)

nah..this is not totaly a personal experience!:)

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]]> By: paul http://jayelleenelial.com/when-you-have-a-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-19187 paul Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:20:32 +0000 http://jayelleenelial.com/?p=661#comment-19187 I personally think that telling your friends your problems is understandable and perhaps, should be encouraged. But when its the same problem over and over again, as a friend, you need to give them a slap across the back of the head and tell them to get over it (figuratively and sometimes, literally). If they just want to moan about it, then that's fine. But you don't need to be unwilling victim to their woes. Remember, nobody likes pity parties. Nobody likes going to them and those who do don't bring presents. <br /><br /> <b>jo: haha yeah, we all like people who can take charge of their lives right?:) lol but what a way to put it!</b> - I personally think that telling your friends your problems is understandable and perhaps, should be encouraged. But when its the same problem over and over again, as a friend, you need to give them a slap across the back of the head and tell them to get over it (figuratively and sometimes, literally). If they just want to moan about it, then that’s fine. But you don’t need to be unwilling victim to their woes.

Remember, nobody likes pity parties. Nobody likes going to them and those who do don’t bring presents.

jo: haha yeah, we all like people who can take charge of their lives right?:) lol but what a way to put it!

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